Well after the suprise of finding out Val was pregnant with our 3rd son we only ever intended 2 children but were elated to find out we were going to have our 3rd son then to have all our hopes dashed and lives in tatter's.The only reason that the hospital could find were some small blood clots in Vals placentre had he been delvered earlier like James a year later he would most probabley have survived but no-one knew there was a problem with clotting as nothing had shown up in tests that Val had to indicate that could be a problem. We knew after we wanted more children & only just over a year later James was born though that was scary to he was prem and quite ill but he's now a happy toddler and has been joined by a baby sister.Because of losing George Val was kept a much closer eye on the next time and problems detected could be quickley dealt with as was the case with James needing to be delvered early at 33 weeks.Victoria was born just a little over a year after that though we had a few scares with her to though in the end she was perfectley ok. Both of them have brought some happiness back to our families lives and brought us closer together I think little George had a hand in sending his family  those two little ones somehow and we all hope one day we we all be reunited in a better place
duncan